Book Sequels
Two sequels to the book Having Our Say were published in 1994 and 1997, with Hearth as co-author of both. As of this writing, they are out of print, although still available at many libraries in the U.S. Both are available, also, as second-hand books. New editions are expected soon. Check back on this page for more information.
The Delany Sisters' Book of Everyday Wisdom
By Sarah L. Delany, A. Elizabeth Delany, and Amy Hill Hearth
A follow-up to Having Our Say, this 1994 oral history, called "enchanting" by The New York Times Book Review, focuses on the centenarian Delany Sisters' philosophy of living well. The sisters offer specific advice for living a happy, contented life. The book includes their favorite recipes and photos of them doing yoga.
From the Preface:
(Copyright 1994 by Amy Hill Hearth)
"It's as if we've become America's grandmas," Sadie Delany said with a huge smile as we looked through a new basketful of fan mail. At 105 years old, Sadie Delany, along with her "little" sister Bessie, 103, had become everyone's favorite centenarians.
People often ask me if the sisters changed (or were spoiled) from all of the attention. The answer, quite simple, is not one bit! What can you say about two celebrities who still insist on making their own soap?
When the letters came pouring in from readers, they often came with questions. People wanted advice, direction, and encouragement. The way they were raised, the sisters believed they had to answer each and every letter. But what to do? If they lived thirty more years, they would not be able to answer them all.
One day it occurred to us that in lieu of answering crates of fan mail, we should simply do a follow-up book. Only this time we would not tell the story of the sisters' lives, but the secrets of old age.
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On My Own: Reflections on Life Without Bessie
By Sarah L. Delany and Amy Hill Hearth
"…An inspiring testament of the power of love and the enduring bonds of family…"
- Coretta Scott King
Written after the death of Bessie Delany at age 104, On My Own is a tribute to Bessie by her sister, Sadie. Illustrated by Brian M. Kotzky with watercolors of flowers from Bessie's garden, the book is a tenderly-written guide to recovery from the death of a cherished loved one. A national bestseller.
Excerpt from the Foreword:
(Copyright 1997 by Amy Hill Hearth)
The Delany Sisters were devoted to each other, but inevitably, their remarkable, century-long relationship came to a close with the death of one of the sisters. Perhaps surprisingly, it was the younger sister, Bessie, who died first. In the year preceding her death in 1995, Bessie had become increasingly frail. Those of us who loved her could see that she was fading away before our eyes. She died as she had wanted: at home, in her bed, with Sadie nearby.
True to form, Bessie managed to 'have her say' at her own funeral! A few months before her death, she took my hand and said, "Amy, when the time comes, tell 'em the old gal was quite happy." She made it clear that she wanted me to speak those words to comfort her mourners at her funeral. Three days after her death, at the Cathedral of Saint John the Divine in New York City, I stood up and repeated her words. As my words echoed in the huge caethdral, I looked past the throng of mourners, the celebrities in the front row, and the television cameras and newspaper photographers recording the event. I saw only Sadie, dressed in a brown suit with a matching beret, crumpling and uncrumpling a handkerchief in some unconscious ritual of grief.
At first the loss of Bessie seemed unbearable. At the time, Sadie Delany had just turned 106 and was on her own for the first time in her life. Always known as one-half of a pair, her identity forged since birth as one of the Delany Sisters, Sadie suddenly found herself, unwillingly, an individual.
One of her first reactions, however, revealed her resilience. When an interviewer asked her what she would do now, after the death of her sister, she said, "Another book! Then she turned to me and said, "If that's okay with you, Amy." I laughed and said, "Of course," delighted at this powerful indication that Sadie had hope for the future.
Sadie Delany has given us an invaluable gift: she shows us that even at the age of 107 it is possible to begin again.